I am 17 and have two girlfriends

Dear Pastor,

I am 17 and I have two girlfriends. One is 18 and the other is 22. The 22-year-old is a friend of my older sister. I am living with my sister and she asked her friend to stay at the house because she wanted to go out with her boyfriend to a party and did not want to leave my little

sister and me alone. When she came, she brought some movies and was watching them. She stayed in my sister's room.

got aroused

When she changed into her nightclothes they was very short and I could see her panties. I got an erection right away and it wouldn't go away. She asked me what was wrong and I told her nothing. That was the first time I fell in love with her. I did not tell her anything. I went into my room, but I could not sleep. When I fell asleep and woke up, I still had an erection. By that time, my sister came back home and her friend told her that she had to close the door because she saw me looking at her. My sister didn't ask me anything at the time until one day I put the question to her friend. I told her that I loved her. She told me I am a boy and she doesn't love boys.

One Saturday, she was at our house and I asked her to comb my hair. I bent my head down and she asked me why I was looking at her breasts. She gave me a kiss on my cheek, and. Pastor, we fell in love. Now we are having sex, but my sister doesn't know. She doesn't have a boyfriend in Jamaica.

My other girlfriend is attending school. My sister's friend always wants me to come to her house. She gives me money everytime we have sex. I love her, but her boyfriend will soon come back from America. If she goes away, she plans to send for me.

L.W.

Dear L.W.,

Have you ever heard

people talk about a person being 'force ripe'? Well, you are a force ripe young man. Your sister's friend was not careful when she came to the house to babysit. Your older sister didn't trust you to stay with your little sister alone. She believed that an adult should be there, but she didn't know that her friend would have been so careless not to dress appropriately.

Of course, what she had on was good enough for the bedroom, but at least she should not have exposed herself to you. Young men are aroused by what they see. That is why you had such an erection after seeing what your sister's friend was wearing. She made it worse by agreeing to comb your hair. You were able to get very close to her and look at her breasts.

just sex

This girl saw you as easy pickings. Her boyfriend is away and she could get some sex from you. She knows it's not something that will last. She will enjoy it until her man returns. She is paying for your service, that's why she gives you money everytime you have sex.

Do you think that it is love why this woman gives you money, or is she giving you money to keep you quiet? I think the latter is correct. She has got you in the wrong direction. Bring an end to this relationship. Your sister would be very unhappy if she were to discover that a

sexual relationship has developed between her friend and you. You have a girlfriend who is just about your age. Stay with her and drop this older woman.

Before I go, let me say that I do know that young men are very excited about having affairs with older women, but I declare that this twenty-two year old woman is not good. She has no right to be sexually involved with a minor.

Pastor