I got my side girl pregnant

Dear Pastor,

I have been to Jamaica for two weeks and I like your column. I am having a problem. My girlfriend is in the New York and I got another girl pregnant.

I don't know how to tell her or what to do. If I tell her the truth, our relationship would be over. I really don't know what to do. We have been together for nine years. Please, I need some advice.

M.J.

Dear M.J.,

I suggest that you tell the woman with whom you have had a relationship that you have impregnated another girl. Don't allow her to hear that from someone else.

You have been very careless. But, get down on your knees and beg your girlfriend pardon. She may or may not forgive you for what you have done. But, it is better to tell her and by doing so, you will free up your conscience.

Pastor