COVID forcing us to have phone sex

Dear Pastor,

I am a young Christian lady. My husband and I have not been together because of the coronavirus. I am living in Canada and cannot travel. My husband and I often engage in phone sex. We satisfy ourselves by this method.

My pastor's wife and I were discussing the matter and I told her what my husband and I do because we have to be apart. She told me that what we are doing is wrong. I am writing to you to ask for your opinion.

Married Woman

Dear Married Woman,

At the risk of being condemned by many of my readers, including Christians, I would just say that I am not prepared to condemn you. You and your husband have found a way to satisfy each other while you are far apart. I hope that in the very near future, both of you will be able to travel and be together, and carry out in person what a man and his wife ought to do for each other.

Pastor