This man refuses to admit he got me pregnant

Dear Pastor,

I am a receptionist and I meet people from everywhere. I enjoy my job. I have a boyfriend. We became friends when he came to do business with the company.

After he met with the boss, he asked me for a date. I told him that I would consider it. He asked me for my number. I told him he could call me on the office number. The second day after meeting with me, he sent me a gift. My boss passed by and asked me if that came from my boyfriend. I told him that it came from the young man who came here and was going to be our client. My boss suggested that I send him back the gift, but I didn't. So this guy and I became friends and we started to date.

I was still living at my parents' home. After six months of our friendship, this man encouraged me to live with him. I decided to give it a try. He has an oversized penis and he does not want to use the condom. I told him that I did not want to get pregnant. I bought some condoms, but to my surprise, they did not fit him. He was too large for them.

Now, Pastor, I am pregnant and this man is telling everybody that he is not responsible for my pregnancy and that I am a cheater. I don't know how I got pregnant because I safely put the condom on him, although I realised that the condom was too small. I left his house, but I am five months pregnant and he is not showing any interest in me like before. I am embarrassed. But my mother is trying to encourage me. Please give me your advice.

C.S.

Dear C.S.,

The only thing I can tell you to do is take this man to court if he refuses to support his child. You know he is the one responsible for your pregnancy, so don't fret yourself to death. Take him to court.

Pastor