Think my penis is too large

Dear Pastor,

I am a 16-year-old boy and I have an embarrassing problem. I have two brothers and two sisters.

My brothers are older than I am and they have normal size penises. My penis is very large. We used to go by the river and bathe. My brothers would just take off their clothes and go into the river. I could not do it because they would shout at me and tell me to go and put on my brief as everybody was watching me because I am very big.

My mother told me that from the time I was growing up, she observed that I have a large penis. She spoke to her doctor about it and he said that he couldn't do anything about it because I am a normal boy child; it is just that I am gifted, and that is not nothing to worry about because I am healthy. My mother told me that the doctor also said that some men are so small that they have to stuff tissue or handkerchiefs in their briefs to give people the impression that they are alright down there.

I don't know why I am so large. Because of the size of my penis, I was shy to talk to girls until one of them approached me and told me she had been admiring me and I started to talk to her. I used to carry my schoolbag in front of me, and she asked me about that. My school had a trip to the beach and I went. This girl was with me the entire day and she did not comment on the size of my penis. I am always conscious that I have a big buff before me. Do you think that the size of my penis will be reduced? Please tell me.

J.W.

Dear J.W.,

Your mother spoke to her doctor about you because she observed some time ago that you have a larger than normal penis.

The doctor assured her that nothing is wrong with you. He told your mother that you are gifted, and by that, he was trying to tell her that what you are carrying is what women love their men to have. That is why you would hear some women say that size matters.

You will come to realise as you grow older that there are some women who discuss among themselves the importance of having men whose penises are large. You have found a girlfriend who has accepted you as you are, although she has never seen it. But she knows that you are not small because she can see the bulge, so to speak. So don't worry, believe your doctor, you are okay.

Pastor