Bondage sex was a nightmare

Dear Pastor,

I am 19 years old and I had an experience I would like to tell you about. I met a man who is in his 30s. He invited me to his house and I went. He is a chef. I helped him to cook. When we finished cooking, we showered together and then we went to bed. I have never done such crazy things. This man tied me up to his bed and after a while I could not help myself. I was helpless. Although I begged him to let me loose, he did not. I started to cry, but he had no mercy on me. He did not have normal sex with me.

When he untied me, I felt very weak. I would never want that to happen to any of the girls who are my friends. He gave me $50,000 the day after and told me to take care of myself. I called him many times after I left and he did not respond. I did not want the relationship to end this way. However, he told me I should try and have someone else in my life. He is finished with me. What did I do wrong?

T.

Dear T.,

You should not have even tried to find this man again. I hope that you used the $50,000 that he gave you to go to the doctor and have yourself checked out. This man engaged you in bondage sex. He is a wicked man, because even when you were crying and asking him for mercy, he had no mercy on you.

You made a mistake. Evidently, you did not know this man very well. He is not the type of man you should want to see again.

Pastor