I masturbate if my man can't have sex

Dear Pastor,

I would masturbate if my partner is sick and can't have sex. People keep saying sex is not all, but we are sexual creatures. If someone is good at sex and you enjoy it, you will always want it.

If my partner can't get an erection, I can make him get one.

Nothing is wrong with masturbation.

When you have sex and you do foreplay, you basically masturbate, unless you are not doing it well.

My boyfriend loves to watch me masturbate. When I masturbate, it turns him on. He loves to listen to me when we do phone sex.

J.B

Dear J.B.,

I am sure men who are having difficulty in achievingan erection would love to know how you can turn on a man even if he is suffering from erectile dysfunction.

You consider foreplay a part of masturbating. I think I understand what you are saying.

Foreplay can include doing a lot of things. People do numerous things to get in the mood.

What you and your man do is your business. What others do is their business. I have said before, I don't condemn nor do I advocate this form of love- making. I need not say anymore.

Pastor