Two boyfriends at 16

Dear Pastor,

I am 16. I have two boyfriends, one is very quiet. He comes from a quiet family. The other is out- going. I love the one who is outgoing. He has vibes, but is always begging me for things.

My father is a businessman. I help him every week. He gives me extra money. I told my boyfriend about what I do at my father's place, so he is always begging me. He wants me to send him credit every day. I asked him why he can't buy his own credit. He has never given me anything, not even a rose for my birthday.

My quiet boyfriend bought me a pair of slippers for Christmas. He surprised me, wrapped in a big box. He made sure I got it before Christmas Day.

I knew it was from him because that's how he is. I love the slippers so much. I wore them all day on Christmas Day.

I did not give him anything for Christmas. I waited until New year's Day. I bought a watch and gave it to him. He has never asked me for sex, but the other guy is always talking about sex.

My quiet friend speaks well, but the other one is raw. I like the rawness sometimes. This guy calls me every day (the rough one), but the other guy calls me once or twice a week. When I don't hear from him, I miss him. He is skinny, but very handsome.

I am confused. I don't want my parents to know I have two boyfriends, but I don't know which to choose.

L.G,

Dear L.G,

You are just 16. You should have lots of social friends, but should not be worrying yourself about serious relationships. I would, however, give a word of warning to you. Keep your skin quiet. Stay with your school work. You are not yet ready for a man.

Pastor