Too many women want my man

Dear Pastor,

I am a regular reader of THE STAR. I enjoy reading your column. Sometimes I cry, sometimes I laugh. You are doing a good job.

I am 29. I am married with two children. My husband is a man of integrity. He complains that whenever he is in Jamaica girls hit on him. Some of them are my friends. He is very handsome. I can't even trust them to dance with him when we go out to certain functions. I have to be holding on to my man all the time. They know we are married.

When were on the north coast on the beach, girls passed us in bikinis, trying to engage him in conversation. I was right there. I did not say a word. Some of these girls look much younger than I am. I can't hide my husband, but Jamaica has changed from when I was here. The girls have become too bold face.

V.E

Dear V.E.,

You don't have anything to complain about. Girls are always looking for men. Some are more discreet than others, but everybody is looking. You were like that too. You were fortunate to find one who is handsome and well put together, but that does not mean other women will not admire him.

If these women are admiring your husband, no big thing. He has to learn how to deal with them. He told you girls are hitting on him. What has he done? He should smile, be nice, tell them he is happily married and not interested in becoming intimate with them.

Every man, or woman, has to know how to take care of himself or herself. I would very much doubt that, since you have been married, no man has shown interest in you. You haven't taken them on so your husband doesn't have to take on, any girl who shows interest in him.

Pastor