Girlfriend says I’m no good in bed

Dear Pastor,

This is the first time I am writing to you. I am 35 years old and I have a girlfriend who is 30 years old.

We have been together for two years. I grew up with my grandmother, and I introduced her to my grandmother from the time I met her.

My grandfather likes her more than my grandmother.

When my grandmother met her, she said right before her that she hoped that I would settle down with her. I want to settle down with her, but the more I get to know her, pastor, I don't believe that I could be happy with her.

She admitted that at her workplace many of the girls don't like her. When I asked her why, she said that it was because she was nice to the guys.

She used to work at one office and she got into an argument with another girl because she became involved with the girl's lover.

The boss heard and almost fired the girl. She told the girl that she had sex with her man but she wouldn't want him again because he could not satisfy her.

She is always telling me about the guys she likes. She even went as far to tell me that I am not performing up to her standard and I need to drink more roots. I can't tell that to my grandmother.

When we have sex, I know when she is faking orgasm.

E.D.

Dear E.D.,

I would not encourage you to continue to be with this woman. In fact, I would suggest that you end this relationship with her as soon as you can.

It is just a matter of time before this woman gives you 'bun', so get out of her life as soon as possible.

You don't want to have a woman who has gone to bed with Tom, Dick and Harry, so to speak. She has already told you enough that should make you very concerned of the type of woman she is.

Sir, let this woman go her way. And after you have ended the relationship with her, tell your grandparents why you have done so.

Pastor