Convinced my wife is cheating

Dear Pastor,

Greetings to you in the name of Jesus Christ, our soon-coming King. I am having a problem with my wife, and I see where you have helped many people.

I may be wrong for reading my wife's text messages on her phone, but I was forced to do so. When I read the messages, one of them said, "I believe it's here. So it has reached. From morning I have been calling your phone up to night and you are not answering. You can tell me to stop calling your phone or you can block me."

My wife replied and said to the person, "How can I block you and you are my heart and soul for the rest of my life? And when you were calling, I was at my children's house in St Mary." That was a lie. She was at home. A few weeks ago, my wife and I were travelling together. Her phone rang. I had it because she gave it to me to carry.

When I looked at the phone, it was the same man calling her. So I handed the phone to her, and she put the phone on airplane mode so that he couldn't call back.

She asked me what I wanted to say to her. I asked her who she was making plans to meet, and she said it was a girlfriend who was calling her about a job.

I love my wife. When I left for work on a Monday morning, I didn't go home until Friday night. Pastor, I need your help.

I bought a wedding ring for $50,000, and my wife only wears the ring when she is going to church. After a while, I did not see her wearing the ring, and it is nowhere in the house.

I asked her why she was not wearing the ring, and she said "The ring washed off her finger while she was washing in the washing tub."

I.G.

Dear I.G.,

What you saw in your wife's phone is enough proof to let you know that she is either cheating or that she intends to cheat.

You are not her only man, so it is time for you to do something about the relationship. In other words, this woman is taking you for an idiot. She does not love you.

So I urge y ou to seek the advice of a lawyer and move on with your life.

You don't need to shed a tear over this woman. She is not a good woman. The faster you bring an end to this relationship, the better it would be for you.

Some relationships cannot work, and, surely, this is one such. By the way, this woman lies a lot, but she is not good at it. What she told you about the ring is nonsense. Don't believe what she said.

Pastor