Have to pay my wife for sex

Dear Pastor,

I don't know if you remember me, but you officiated at my wedding 15 years ago. We have lovely pictures of you at our wedding, but I am sorry to report that my wife and I are not doing well.

My wife was a great pretender when I met her. She was very active in church, but it seems to me that all she wanted was a husband. We ended up having a boy and a girl.

You knew the type of work that I was doing at the time. I wasn't working for any big money. My wife made more money than I.

Since we have been married, she has always told me that she could have got a man who was making big money, but it was because of our Christian testimony that she married me.

It has come to the stage where I have to pay my wife for sex. So I said to myself that if I had to pay her for sex, she is no better than a prostitute.

One day, I decided to test her, and I told her that I needed her, but I did not have any money. She put on a pair of very tight shorts and told me that when I had money, she would take the shorts off.

I tried to pull the shorts off, and she warned me that if I raped her, she would call the police. So I stopped, and I have not had anything to do with her when it comes to sex. I have left her alone.

Don't you think that this is grounds for divorce? I would like to hear from you.

T.T.

Dear T.T.,

I would like to say that there must be another side to the story. I don't doubt anything that you have said, but this woman is a very wicked woman. I, therefore, suggest that you speak to a lawyer about this marriage.

Pastor