Girlfriend says my ‘tool’ is too small

Dear Pastor,

I do not know what you can do for me. I am 23 years old and I have a girlfriend. I love her so much. I was planning to marry her, but the first time we decided to spend some time together, she kept staring at my crotch.

She then she asked me how come I was so fat and my private part was so small. I was very embarrassed. We had sex and I dropped her home.

We have gone out many times after, but whenever I want to take her to my house, she doesn't want to go because she says I am too small and I cannot manage, so I have to do something about my penis.

What do you suggest I do? I do not want to lose this girl. I really love her. She is in nursing school. I know I can talk to a doctor, but I am too ashamed to discuss that with him.

I told my girlfriend that I would write to you about it, and she told me that when you reply, she would like to see what you have said.

I don't want to waste my time with her although I love her very much. I told her that I was comfortable with her and I do not believe that my size is her problem.

So, Pastor, don't put my letter down and forget it. Please let me hear from you, sir.

W.A.

Dear W.A.,

I am not going to attempt to tell you what to do to satisfy your woman. I know that there are so many tablets and so on being advertised to make the penis larger.

I have never encouraged men to take these tablets. Some people advertise extension to the penis and, believe it or not, some men have had surgery to make their penises larger and some of their women say that the surgery makes a difference.

So, what I would suggest, sir, is that you forget your pride and make an appointment to see a doctor who would be able to advise you appropriately.

You love this nurse, so at least make an effort to get advice, and perhaps what you should do is ask her to accompany you to see the doctor.

Pastor