Convinced he’s cheating

Dear Pastor,

I have a boyfriend and at nights he is so busy watching television instead of giving me attention. He would reply whenever he feels like.

I have to get his attention by cursing over the phone or walking around half-dressed or naked when I'm there. I believe he's cheating on me with a very young girl, and so I can never trust him 100 per cent again.

Whenever I go around him, I don't see any more texts with them corresponding, so I believe he deletes them because I started searching his phone. Someone texted him and said "You nah come look fi you yard girl."

That is the main reason why I believe he's cheating and I can never trust him again. I prayed to God to let me stop loving him. I planned on ignoring him for at least three days to let him know how it feels to not stay online with me.

Am I overreacting? Please get back to me.

Depressed

Dear Depressed,

This man does not feel committed to you. It seems as if you are forcing yourself on him. You are doing everything to cause him to love you. Frankly, what I think you should do is to end the relationship with him.

He does not respect you. You are wasting your time. You are not his main woman. You are only one of his girls. Drop him. If you don't, you will always suffer from depression.

Pastor