I don’t like what she wants me to eat

Dear Pastor.

I'm having some real problems in my relationship. I've been talking to this girl for eight years now. I found out she was texting this other guy.

I argued and complained constantly about the issue until one morning I said to her, "It's either me or him," and she said she liked him.

So it started a big argument and we ended the relationship. She continued to see him. I do love this girl, so one day I was at home and she called me saying she missed me and wanted us to get back together.

Because I love her, I went back to her, but now she is asking me to do oral sex with her because the guy that she was with did it to her every day.

Pastor, that is not my style, so I told her to go back to him. Do you think I am wrong for saying that to her?

A.B.

Dear A.B.,

After eight years of loving this girl, you found out that she had another man in her life. The impression that she gave to you told you that she didn't love you as much as this guy.

You gave her an ultimatum and she chose the guy.

Evidently, things didn't work out very well with the guy, so she called you and told you that she wanted you back.

You foolishly took her back into your life, and now she is asking you to do oral sex with her because she has got accustomed to it and she likes it.

My friend, if you don't do oral sex with her, be warned. She will find a guy who will do it with her because she loves the kick oral sex gives to her. Young man, be wise.

This girl has already disappointed you. You should not have taken her back in your life. My suggestion to you is, tell this young woman that she should go her way. Tell her the truth; tell her you made a mistake by taking her back in your life.

Pastor