My husband keeps charging up for sex

Dear Pastor

Your column inspires me. I have been reading it for a long time. I have learnt a lot from you and I have encouraged others to read your writings. I am having my fourth child. My husband wants more, but I don't want anymore. After this, that is it.

He is a great husband. I have been with him since I was 18 years old. He has never hit me and he is a great provider. He says that sometimes I am miserable, and that is the truth.

My husband likes sex and plenty of it, too. Sometimes I tell him I am tired, but he says that I am too young to be tired. I am 37 years old.

I found out recently that my husband is taking drugs to enhance his sexual drive. I don't know why he figures that he should do so, because I do not have an issue with his ability to satisfy me. He does not need to do so.

What can I do to cause him to stop using these things?

P.A.

Dear P.A.,

Your husband is making a big mistake. He has been made to believe that he needs to use these sexual enhancers to make him have sex with you longer. He needs to understand that these so-called enhancers are mainly prescribed by physicians to men who are suffering from erectile dysfunction. If your husband is not suffering from any of these things, he does not have any need to use them.

I was asked to officiate at a wedding and during one counselling session, in the presence of the bride-to-be, the groom took out some tablets and showed me that he had been using them. Nothing was wrong with him, but he believed that it would be helpful to give him stamina so his wife would be fully satisfied when they are married.

Poor fool.

Pastor