My girlfriend is pregnant for a man twice her age
Dear Pastor,
I am an 18-year-old young man and I have a girlfriend who is 17. When I met her she told me that she didn't have a boyfriend.
When I asked her if she had ever had sex, she said she had done it twice, but her mother found out and slapped her. Her mother also told her father and the father told the boy to keep away from her. This girl was the first girl I ever had sex with. She made me into a man by taking my virginity. I love her so much. But now she says that she is pregnant and it is for a man twice her age.
She said that it was a mistake. She went out with this man and he took her to his house and had sex with her, but he did not rape her. I am very angry. This is a big man, so he should not have sex with a young girl. I am wondering what to do.
I told two of my friends and they both said that when they saw this girl with me, they knew that she was too hot for me and that made me feel worse. Do you think that I should take her back as my girlfriend after she has the baby? She said she will come back to me.
E.S.
Dear E.S.,
This young woman has already dropped you by going with this other man and getting pregnant by him. You are too young to be entangled with such a woman. So, please leave her alone. Consider this relationship to be finished. Do not make any commitment to her. Get yourself an education. The man who got her pregnant should stand up to his responsibilities. Walk away from this girl, young man, walk away.
Pastor








