Lesbian trying out a man!

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togeda again TamFam style at RAGABASH KINGSTON, February 20, Oneil's Place, 33 Hagley Park Road. Awright, pree da mix-up ya:

Dear Raga,

I am a female who has been in relationship with a woman for 13-plus years. I am the one who wrote you about being abused and my mother didn't believe, and the man confessed when I said I would call the police if that's what it took.

Fast-forward to two years ago, I wonder what it would be like to be with a man (relationship, family etc.). So I prayed to God about it. How am I going to find this man and I don't even trust them? I have a friend I have known since I was 16, and we haven't spoken in almost a year when we started talking again. I expressed this to him. I noticed that he started coming around a lot and wanting to take me out, etc. I love the father in him and I thought of having a baby with him, etc.

I have known him forever, so I didn't think anything of it. I told him I am going to change my mom's car oil and this man drove for hours to change it for me. That day it's like a switch was flipped. I wanted him! We went to the movies two nights later, and while in the movies, I kissed him and his instrument stand up so strong it turned me on. I held myself together. I started to think about him and how much I wanted to jump on it and let him have his way with mi, but I wasn't going to give in that easily.

For four long months, I held it together and not just have my way with this man. Now, it's the night of our first time together. Kissing, touching, caressing, and finally, what I have been waiting for, I felt it and noticed how did it fit so perfect and if God had created this one just fi mi. I closed my eyes and wanted it deeper, so I pulled him in but he pulled out! What happened I asked? Raga he came! SMH.

I was mad! Ok, so I wanted it again; less than TWO MINs into it he came again. I am now steaming. But I really like him, so I research to see what can be done. I learned that if I go on top it can make the fun last longer. Now, we are up to our sixth time, and I said I want to be on top. Remember, I never did this before, so I gently work my way on top and getting ready to start enjoying myself, he turned to mi and said, 'you want the baby now? If not you need to come off.' Seriousl, Raga, the man come again! So, mi stop talking to him and said lets just remain friends. I don't know if I should have a child with him. He is a good father but I am not sure if it will cause mi more trouble in the long run since he wants mi still.

Well, he apparently has a problem of premature ejaculation. However, from what you've written here, he's not focusing on that problem, but is instead targeting getting you pregnant because he knows you want a child. In this regard you need to be very careful that your need for a child doesn't cause you to get into problems with this man. Additionally, in your move away from sex with women and now trying men, you seek to enjoy this new intimacy, but you're not getting sexual satisfaction from this man and it's making you unhappy. Perhaps, you really need to think if you really want to sexually enjoy this man, or is it that you just want his sperm for a child??

You stated that you might not know what you want, but you know what you don't want. However, you do need to know what you want.

All the best.

Awright family, haffi leggo di ends now. Sen mi unu mixup dem at ragashanti@ragashanti.com. See unu same place yah soh nex Thursday.

Road!!