Good girls always get guys who wants to beat them!

Dear Pastor,

It is a fact that decent and good girls always get guys who want to beat them but the bad and outrageous girls get the good guys and treat them like crap. I am a good girl and I could say that my man is a good man.

C

Dear C,

It is not only some girls who have grown up in sheltered homes. Some guys have also grown up that way. They didn't run around in their teens. They had very strict parents and they had to study and pass their exams. Some guys have never had a date until they were 18 or older. Some were literally afraid of girls and the girls described them as "fool fool". And although they considered them as silly, they loved to have them, especially if they are handsome and they come from decent homes and can give them money. They take pride in telling their girlfriends how they were the first to have sex with these types of guys. Many of these girls don't know how to conduct themselves in public and they embarrass the guys, so after a while the guys realise that they could do better and they leave them.

Pastor