Women should use toys if their men are impotent

Dear Pastor,

Men who have diabetes and cannot have an erection, are unable to have sex. Wouldn't sex toys work well and it will be better for women to use the toys than to give their husbands 'bun'?

V.M.

Dear V.M.,

Many people would agree with you, but there are those who would condemn you. This is certainly an individual decision. I don't believe that anyone should condemn those who find sex toys to be very helpful. I would, however, suggest that you encourage your husband to follow the advice of his doctor and to watch his diet. People who suffer from diabetes should never give up on their sex life.

Pastor