Friend stole my man after a threesome

Dear Pastor,

I have three children, two boys and one girl. I was unfortunate. These three children are for three different fathers.

The father of my youngest child says that he loves me. He is not Jamaican. He came to Jamaica to visit me and my best friend took him away.

I was stupid to agree to do a threesome with her and him. It was just for kicks. But that was where I went wrong. Even before he left to go back to the US, she took him away from me.

When he went back to the US, I didn't hear from him for three weeks, but she heard from him. When I was not getting any money from him, he was sending money to her.

She admitted to me that he questioned her about me. But she did not give him any information. I told him that I would forgive him for what he did, but I would never forgive her.

I want him back in my life. This girl and him are still corresponding. What do you think I can do to pull them apart from each other?

Y.A.

Dear Y.A.,

You helped to destroy your relationship. You encouraged your man to engage in a threesome which included your friend. That was a big, big mistake.

EVERYTHING LOCK

Your boyfriend took her over, or should I say she took him over. Both of them had everything locked and they made a fool of you because you first made a fool of yourself.

I don't know what you can do to get this man back. This girl is not going to give him up. You have already declared to this man that both of you can share him.

Judging by his behaviour, he knows that whether you agree to have him back in your life or not, he has your girlfriend, who would give him the excitement that he wants.

I repeat, you made a mistake, but you should have enough pride to tell this man and the young woman not to even come near to your gate. You don't want to see or hear from them again.

Pastor