My body isn’t as enticing as it used to be

Dear Pastor,

I have three children and I have a good husband. I used to be very 'tight', but since having my children, I don't feel like that anymore, but my husband doesn't complain.

But it is always in the back of my head whether he is enjoying me as he used to. I asked him and he said it was nothing to complain about, but he is such a decent man. He wouldn't say anything that would embarrass me.

As I said, I feel a little slack down there. I want to know if there is anything that I can do to get me at the place where I used to be. I hope you are not laughing at me. I will be looking in THE STAR every day for your answer.

Initials Withheld

Dear Initials Withheld,

This is a real concern that some women have, but you don't need to be worried about it. There are exercises that are called Kegel exercises that a woman can do every day. It would strengthen your pelvic floor muscle, which supports your uterus, and make you tight. Your husband told you that he is quite happy with how you are, but if you are not satisfied with what he said, you should definitely do the Kegel exercises.

Pastor