Keep hearing rumours about my man

Dear Pastor,

Something is bothering me. I am 30 and I have been married to a man for three years. Our relationship is going well but, about two months ago, a friend told me that she heard that my husband was having a relationship with one of her friends. She did not want me to ask my husband about it because he may suspect that she was the one who told me. I told her that I was going to ask him about it. She begged me not to and said she would never tell me anything again that she heard. So, I didn't ask my husband anything. I have kept my cool and this girl and I have continued to be friends, but I don't trust her. She always gets news about everybody.

Now I have been told that the same girl who she accused my husband of having an affair with has lost a baby. But she really did not lose it. She threw it away but she did not know who got her pregnant. I asked my husband if he knew that this girl was pregnant and he said no. I told him to be careful with this girl.

T.K.

Dear T.K.,

Some people are troublemakers. They know everything about everybody. They cannot keep their lips closed. They run their mouths all the time. They are not concerned whether they will destroy people. They just chat. You have been enjoying your relationship with your husband, but there are some people who would like to destroy the relationship by telling lies on him.

If some people see a man and a woman talking often, they are going to say that they are having an affair, and sometimes that is far from the truth. A young man takes a woman on a date, people accuse them of having sex.

I hope that you are not going to listen to such persons like this woman who told you about your husband, because, if you do, you are going to destroy your relationship. So, use common sense and hold on to your man and learn to love him daily.

Pastor