Not leaving my worthless man

Dear Pastor,

Pastor, good afternoon. This young woman who is complaining about her man, she needs to grow up. I am with a man who verbally abuses me and treats me like his helper. He is not very good in the bedroom department so she needs to thank God for what she has and grow up and buy herself a new vibrator.

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Dear Writer,

I thank you for your very short letter. You have declared about the relationship the woman is having with her man. You would be prepared to stay with your man regardless of his incompetence but you would know how to please yourself. I am not prepared to comment on that part. I only hope that your man, who from time to time is very rough on you, will learn to treat you well and I would say to you that you probably should suggest to him that both of you go to see a family counsellor for some sessions. I am sure that would help the relationship that both of you are having. My prayers are with you.

Pastor