Got paid to have a threesome - The man has been calling me ever since

Dear Pastor,

I am having a problem. I have had many boyfriends and when I was 19 years old, an older woman invited me to her bed with her boyfriend to do a threesome.

I needed the money and this guy was willing to give me $20,000. He had just come from America. So, I went to the house and we romped in bed for a couple of hours. My mind was on the money and not on the sex. This guy was white and he called me 'chocolate'. This man told me that he would do anything to help me go to America.

I know that if I want this man I could get him to be my own. He is not in Jamaica, but he contacts me all the time. But his so-called woman doesn't know that he is in touch with me. I am working. I have a steady boyfriend now. But every time my boyfriend wants us to have sex without the condom, I am worried because I have had multiple partners. I don't want to expose my boyfriend to any STI. I would love to go to America to study and to live, but I don't want to hurt my friend because all I have to do is to say the word and this man will help me. I need your advice. Please help me.

C.L.

Dear C.L.,

There was a time that people didn't talk about having threesomes openly, but nowadays they do so as if nothing is wrong with it. Every woman who has admitted to me that they introduced their girlfriends to their marriage to have threesomes, they have lost their husbands to these women. These women totally took over the men. That is what you are tempted to do right now.

The man gave you $20,000 and you agreed to go to bed with him and his woman because you needed the money. But now you are thinking of taking him over totally. Perish that thought. Don't entertain it at all. You have played around with many other men, but now you are in a committed relationship. Go to the doctor and be tested for everything, including HIV/AIDS. Try to develop a good relationship with your present boyfriend. I wish you well.

Pastor