Roommate sleeping with my side man

Dear Pastor,

I am 24 years old and I have two boyfriends. I have a roommate who is 21. I advertised for someone to share the apartment with me and this girl showed up. We became good friends. She pays her rent on time. The people in the complex are very inquisitive. This girl's boyfriend is married, so he does not sleep over with her here. He goes home regardless of how late it is.

I have tried my best not to make my boyfriends see each other at my place. But it happened that one evening they met, and it was this girl who saved me by entertaining one of them in her room. She is young, but she is very smart. She pretended that the guy was her man and she took drinks into her room and gave it to the guy until I was finished entertaining the other one. We had a big joke about it. But now it is no longer a joke, because whenever he comes by now, he goes straight to her, and he behaves as if I do not exist.

This girl and my boyfriend are now lovers. She is getting what I used to get from him. At the same time, she has her regular boyfriend. This guy used to give me $12,000 every week. Now I am not getting anything from him. I am the one to be blamed, because I asked her to entertain the guy for me, and now she has taken him over. I don't want her to leave because she pays the rent, which is expensive; it's $100,000 per month. So I am still having sex with the two guys, the one that we are sharing and my personal boyfriend. She is also having sex with two guys, because she is still seeing her boyfriend who is married.

E.N.

Dear E.N.,

You have lived dangerously for a long time and it has caught up which you. You were entertaining two men regularly and finally, these men came to see you and your roommate had to rescue you by entertaining one of the men, and she did a very good job of it. So now when he comes to the house, he does not come to you, he goes to her.

I knew of a case where a girl like you was seeing two men, but she was so skilled at her trade that none of them had ever been to see her at the same time. Your roommate is much younger than you and if she was indeed able to capture one of the men, she must have entertained him much better than you. I must ask you these questions: Are you not employed? Why do you really have to have affairs with two men at the same time?

Your rent is indeed high. If you have a job, you should be able to maintain yourself and pay your rent. Perhaps you should consider getting another place that is cheaper. You and your roommate are prostituting yourselves. And even if you were to ask her to leave, your so-called boyfriend would follow her. Look into yourself. You and your roommate need to talk this thing over and decide what's the best way forward.

Pastor