Should I use a dildo?

Dear Pastor,
I have not had sex for two years, as I have not found the right man to steal my heart. However, I have started to have some sexual urges.

Is it a sin to use a dildo?
N.S.

Dear N.S.,
Women use dildos and other objects to masturbate. Some counsellors and psychologist say it is wrong, while others say it is not.

I am not here to condemn you or anyone, especially considering that 'The Bible' is silent on the practice of masturbation.

It is natural to have sexual urges, but one has to control these urges. Lack of sex has never killed anyone.

However, I pray that the Good Lord will provide you with a husband very soon.
Pastor.