He is not taking no for an answer

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December 10, 2018

Dear Pastor,

I am working in an organisation and one of the directors of the company loves me. I have been working at the organisation before he became a part of it. When he met me he began to send me texts and telling me how much he loves me. I told him we could only be social friends as I already have my boyfriend and we have been together for three years. He said that he can deal with it as long and I can deal with it. I told him I could not deal with it and I did not want to leave my boyfriend or for my boyfriend to think that I was cheating on him.

My birthday was in August. To my surprise, this man, who is 42 years old, sent me a package in very pretty wrappings. It says on the card, happy birthday. When I opened the package, I found 12 sexy underwear. They were very seductive. I was very, very surprised and I called him and asked him why he was doing that to me. He said he was only sending a message to let me know that he is serious about the relationship. I told him that I would send them back to him. Then I changed my mind and decided to keep them. After all, I wouldn't have to buy panties for a while.

This man has much more money than my boyfriend. But I don't like him. He is not taking no for an answer, so please, tell me what to do.

R.E.

Dear R.E.,

I can tell you to stand firm. 'No' is no. You do not want to have an intimate relationship with this man. And remember, you cannot prevent birds from flying over your head. But you can prevent the bird from making a nest on your head. So you can't prevent this man from admiring you, but you don't have to have an intimate relationship with him. You can block his number from your phone. If he wants to discuss company business with you, he can do so at the office. But have nothing to do with him.

Some people may wonder why you have kept the sexy panties. You could have sent them back but you chose to keep them. But you kept them, you have use for them. I wouldn't suggest that you take anymore gifts from him.

Pastor

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