My man’s small penis could be a big problem

Dear Pastor,

I am having a problem and I decided to write to you. I always try to deal with my problems on my own, but I am having a difficult time coming up with answers for this one.

I have a boyfriend and we have been living together. He does not have a permanent job, but he works very hard. He gives me whatever I ask him for. We have been together for five years. We are trying to have a child together but we have not yet been successful.

This man has a very small penis; it is very short, and some of my friends told me that that could be the problem. But I do not believe that is the problem. I have never been unfaithful to this man, but one of my friends told me that I may have to try another man if I am really interested in getting pregnant. He does not have other women, so I do not wish to go with another man, unless he is seeing another woman.

Please tell me how to handle my problem.

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Dear Writer,

I am sure you know that the size of a man's penis does not determine whether he has the ability to impregnate a woman.

In Jamaica, people always say that men who are of a certain ethnic group do not have large penises. But some of them have many children, so you should ignore what your friends are telling you to do. Stay with your man. He may get you pregnant when you have given up all hope. I can understand how anxious you are to get pregnant, but I will not encourage you to have an affair with another man.

Pastor