Take your sex life off auto-pilot - Start the foreplay with a sexy text message in the morning

It’s the beginning of a New Year and that time when people are in the mood to be better by making New Year’s resolutions. Unfortunately, plans that include sexual improvements rarely make the list. The truth is, so many people expect their sex life to be on auto-pilot, and so they make very little effort to keep it vibrant and live.

I did a survey among my friends, both single and in relationships, about the frequency of their sexual interaction. Most of them said they’re not satisfied with their sex lives because they can’t find the time to nurture their sexual needs due to their busy lives.

Schedule time for sex

Busy schedules make it difficult for people to make time for sex. While making an appointment for sexual activities may sound unromantic, it may be necessary just to work around people’s busy lives. It’s also practical to make plans and set up romantic activities.

All-day foreplay

Sex does not start when partners touch each other. There is a mental play that gets going and keeps partners sexually engaged even though they are away from each other. Start your foreplay with a sexy text message in the morning. Then a quick phone call, lunchtime. Send a naughty pic in the afternoon. The whole point of the all-day foreplay is to get your partner so aroused that by the time you actually see each other, there is only one thing on your minds : sex.

Sex up a regular game

One way to get the most sex out of your time together is to sex up a regular activity. For example, games like Scrabble or Twister. When playing Scrabble, use the words to send sexy messages or just ask for something sexy to be done to you. Spell sexy words like fellatio or orgasm, and be very clear about what you want for a prize after you won the game. With Twister, simply get naked, oiled up, and spin the wheel. The game will prove to be a very fun and erotic way to tap into your inner naughty.

As with everything else in life, your sex life is only as good as the effort you put into it. Life happens, and it’s very easy to neglect this part of life, but sex is important. It’s the glue that keeps relationships fun and interesting – the physical expression of love between partners. It’s also the body’s built-in anti-depressant and pain reliever.

So get your sexy on as much as you can in 2020.

Sexy New Year!

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