Ready to use obeah against this man thief

Dear Pastor,

I am 26 years old and I am married. There was a girl who was my rival, but eventually I won out.

My husband chose me instead of her. I have not lived in peace with this girl. She told me that I could boast about having the ring but she would always have the man. My husband said he has not been seeing her, so I should try and ignore her.

Friends told me that at times they see my husband's truck parked at her gate, so he is still seeing her. He told me he only goes there to drop off his partner money but nothing more. I told him he should leave that partner, but he does not see why he should not be in it because it has helped him. I am worried because right now I am pregnant and my mother told me a pregnant woman should not fret over anything.

My husband delivers goods to different business places, but he does not come home early in the evenings. He tells me I should stop nagging him because he is not doing anything wrong. But I know this girl. She will do anything to break up my marriage, but my husband cannot see that. I told my husband that we have to use the condom whenever we are having sex and he cursed and told me that I am talking to him like he is a child. I do not want to lose my husband. I love him with all my heart, body and soul. This girl will not get him, even if I have to find a good obeah man or woman to fix her business.

Please print this letter so that he can see it and please tell me what to do.

D.E.

Dear D.E.,

I cannot encourage you to go to any obeah man or woman to solve your problem. I must discourage you from having such a thought.

Don't waste your money by going to see anybody who may claim to have a special gift to keep two people together. Try your very best to be calm and treat your husband well. He says that he is not having an intimate relationship with this woman you claim to be your rival. Accept what your husband says.

Evidently this young woman is determined to make your life very unhappy. She is jealous of you, and jealousy can destroy a good relationship. Don't take on this woman; let her talk, and talk and talk. She will eventually stop. I hope your husband will eventually stop going to her place. He can join another partner. Partner draws can be very sweet and helpful. But, if going to her place is going to destroy your marriage, your husband should be wise enough to get out of that situation.

So, I warn you, don't fuss with your husband, and please do not pay any obeah man or woman to fix this lady or your marriage. Let me hear from you again.

Pastor