I cannot encourage you to have an abortion

Dear Pastor,

I am with a man as a 'side chick'. I am now pregnant. He has a girlfriend, but they are not having sex together. She does not know me and I don't know her. Would it be wrong to abort my pregnancy, or should I carry the child? I am confused.

Side chick

Dear Side chick,

I cannot encourage you to have an abortion. Your life is not in danger, neither were you raped. This man and you agreed to have sex and you did it without using any form of contraceptive, so now that you have become pregnant, please carry the pregnancy and have this man support his child.

Pastor