This customer is all over me

Dear Pastor,

I am 20 years old and I would like to relate something to you. I work with a company that delivers goods for people who buy items from the store.

I work with the boss. One day we took a refrigerator and a television to a home. We were offered drinks, and we chatted with the woman who lives at the apartment. My boss told me that he could see that the young lady likes me. I asked him how he could know that and he said that he is a pro.

This woman gave me her number and told me that I should call her. About 7 p.m., I called and she told me that she was expecting to hear from me. She said she is from the country and had moved to Kingston to work and she doesn't know anybody here. She is alone. She told me I could come back to see her, but I should just let her know when I could come. She said on Sundays she would have more time, so we planned for the Sunday afternoon.

I did not have anything bad in my mind. She is an older woman. That Sunday morning, I called her and told her that I was definitely coming. She said she had planned to cook dinner for both of us. When I got there and she opened the door, she had on just a see-through dress with no underwear or bra. I jumped and pulled back. I was so surprised to see her that way as we didn't know each other. She laughed and told me that the day is hot so she has to make herself comfortable and her apartment doesn't have air conditioning. She told me she was in the kitchen and I could come and assist her.

I was nervous even when I was in the kitchen. I asked her what would happen if her boyfriend should come and see me at the house and she wasn't wearing any clothes. She said I do not need to fear because her boyfriend is in the country and he would inform her when he is coming. She shared out the dinner but instead of just eating from her plate, she was eating also from my plate.

This girl was very rude; she started to play with my private parts until I had an erection. She asked me about my girlfriend and I told her that I did not have one. She said she would be my girlfriend. When we were finished eating, she offered me ice cream and she put some of it on my penis and went down on me. It was the first time a woman was doing that to me. That girl had me do oral sex on her. Now we are hooked together. She is trying to assist me to get another job, and she is suggesting that we live together. She is 23. I met her mother. She seems to be a very decent woman. Every day this girl is asking me when I am coming to live with her. I told her that when I get a better job we can discuss that.

I don't think I trust her. Most times when I go to see her, she is not wearing underwear. I used to hear my grandmother telling my sisters that girls who don't wear panties are worthless. I would like to get your advice.

G.M.

Dear G.M.,

This young woman and you became sexually involved quickly. She moved on you very fast, and the reason she gave you was that she is lonely, doesn't know anybody in the city, and her boyfriend was in rural Jamaica.

This is the type of woman every man should run from. She only met you once when you delivered goods at her apartment, and the day she invited you to her place she was not decently dressed. She was prepared to carry on her ways, and then at dinner, she gave you the full works. Her aim was to tie you. But sir, what she did should tell you that she will do the same with another man if the opportunity arises.

So hear me now, young man, run from this woman, as fast as you can.

Pastor