Can’t find my wife’s G spot

Dear Pastor,

I am 25 years old and my wife is 23. We have been married for six months and we have been enjoying each other.

I want you to know that we are Christian people. My wife does not want to get pregnant until after she has celebrated her 24th birthday. She has made a request of me which I have not been able to comply with because I do not know how to go about it. I do not want to ask any of my male friends about it, either.

My wife does not object to us exploring each other's bodies. She has even bought books that both of us have read. But what I have not been able to do is to find her G spot, and we do not want to ask just anybody about that. I hope I am not embarrassing myself by asking you, where exactly is the G spot and how can I reach it?

J.

Dear J.,

I am glad to hear that you are a happily married man and enjoying the pleasures that married life brings.

From what you have written, your wife is an intelligent woman. The Bible says that a married man should enjoy his wife's body. In fact, the Bible mentions the parts of a woman's body that her husband should enjoy.

Now, the question you have asked me is a little difficult for me, because what is commonly called the G spot is not a part of a woman's anatomy. In fact, there are those in the medical field who say that it is not something a person can experience, and it is not like the clitoris.

I believe, dear sir, that you would have to explore your wife's body when you have lots of time until you discover it. It is said that it is not deep down in the vagina, and that is all I am prepared to say. I have to leave that one there.

Pastor