70 and still enjoy touching myself

Dear Pastor,

I am a 70-year-old man and I still read your column. My wife reads it, too; she says that it helps her to keep young.

I told her that if it keeps her young, she should continue to read it because there are things that I read in the column that I did not know about. I first saw them in the column.

When I was a young man, I used to masturbate regularly. I thought it was just because I loved sex so much and was not having enough girls. But then I had more girls than I could manage, and now I still masturbate. But your column has taught me that I might be still doing so because of my age. I recently met a man who told me that his wife does not like to come to bed with her clothes on. She enjoys masturbating him, not just with her fingers, but with her mouth. He gets an erection all the time from what she does.

I have learnt to keep myself under control and to continue to love my wife, ignoring what others might say about us.

E.W.

Dear E.W.,

Let me make this suggestion to you. You are a grown man, you are not lacking experience. Always pleasure yourself. Pleasure your partner, and to hell with everybody else. I know some would say I shouldn't use the word 'hell', but you know what I mean.

A regular caller on the ' Dear Pastor Show' said that she does not like to sleep with her clothes on. So for years, she takes off every piece of her clothes when it is time to go to bed. Yes, her husband and her are pleasuring themselves and nobody else. Life would be much more enjoyable when people learn to mind their own business.

Find ways that you can pleasure yourself and life will be more enjoyable for you and your partner.

Pastor