I can never trust another woman again

I am losing my mind and I am really hurt. I don't know where to start. I have two jobs and about to take on a third one. Because I am so hurt I can't stay home. I have been faithful and loving to this girl and gave her my heart. I would call her everyday just to say I love you or send her flowers every week. Because of my hectic work schedule the only time I have for myself is on Saturdays and sometimes Sundays. To cut a long story short, the girl I have been seeing for three years took me for a fool and broke up with me for some other guy who is not working and extremely young. The other guy is 18 and a so-called bad boy. I can't sleep or eat. All I can do is work my butt off. I just don't understand women these days. My family thinks I am losing my mind because I am not sleeping or eating and taking on a third job which my body can't handle. Memories and dreams are killing me when I sleep and I find myself just wondering in my mind.

Sleepless

Dear Sleepless,

You did not give your age but any man who is too busy cannot keep a relationship. If a man loves a woman he has to find time to be with her. Even if he cannot spend all day, he has to so arrange his schedule to be with the one he loves. Sending flowers and telling a woman that you love her are not the same as spending quality time with her. What is the purpose of taking on a third job? What you need to do is to quiet your spirit and reason with this girl and find out whether she loves you and both of you try to resolve the differences. You may need the assistance of a family counsellor to help you.

Pastor