I can hear my brother and his girl having sex

Dear Pastor,

I am a 25-year-old man and I have a brother who is 27. He has a girlfriend and sometimes she comes to the house and sleeps with him.

He has his own room and I have mine, but I can hear them at nights making love. Whenever I hear them making love and she is groaning in pleasure, I have to turn to the wall and masturbate. I have a girlfriend, but she does not come to our house and sleep with me because I am not sure that this is the girl I want to marry. She used to have other men before she met me and I told myself that I don't want to marry a girl who used to run around. My brother's girlfriend is very sexy. I would love to meet a sexy girl like her. Sometimes when they are in their room, I have to turn my television up, but I can still hear them carrying on and sometimes they go on for a long time. Do you think that it is normal for me to masturbate while they are having fun in their bedroom?

W.L.

Dear W.L.,

The wall that separates your bedroom from that of your brother's must me very thin.

In some apartments, one can hear when a pin drops from another room, if you know what I mean. Because even when you turn your television up, you can still hear your brother and his girlfriend making love. That is not good.

I am amazed that this affects you so much that you have to masturbate. You are so turned on. Perhaps what you also need to do is purchase a noise reducer and that will help to prevent you from being disturbed in your room when your brother is carrying on his stuff with his woman.

Pastor