Husband cheating on me to get divorce money

Dear Pastor,

I want you to share my story with you. I have been married to my husband from I was 23, but my husband and I have been together for nine years.

I have invested my sweat and tears to help this man to reach where he is now. Now I have found out that he is cheating on me with another woman. He told her that I am not treating him well at home and that I am not cooking, which is a lie. Whenever I come home from work, I always cook.

This man is with this woman because she is waiting on her divorce money that she has promised to give him. He moved out from his home to live with her and wants me to wait on him. Tell me if this boy is not too bright and disrespectful. Tell me if I shouldn't divorce this low-life boy. He does not assist me as his wife any more and I have helped him in every way to get him to where he is today. Please tell me what to do

P.W.

Dear P.W.,

Your husband has to come up with a reason for leaving you because he is no longer interested in you.

The relationship that both of you have had doesn't mean anything to him any more. He has left you and he knows that you have not done him any wrongs, so he has to make up different reasons why he has left you. He is a liar and a dishonest man. The woman that he is with now will find out that he is not a truthful person. She is getting a divorce from her husband and whatever money that is coming to her from the settlement, she would be a big fool to pass it on to this man.

From the tone of your letter, it seems that he is telling you that when he gets the money from this woman, he is going to return to you. Your husband seems to be a crook. Such a man cannot be trusted. You should go and see a lawyer, but make sure you have all your facts together. I hope you would not allow yourself to be used by this crooked man you call your husband. The lawyer would tell you what you are entitled to from this marriage.

Pastor