This woman is giving my wife competition

Dear Pastor,

I am a 25-year-old man and my wife is 30. We have been married for two years. The relationship was going very well. But now, my wife doesn't seem to care about me. She has two children from another relationship. We went for counselling and the counsellor suggested that we should go for a break, because we might be working too hard and ignoring each other's sexual needs.

We agreed to the suggestion. We made arrangements for the children to stay with relatives. I was excited. We were only going to be together from the Friday night to the Monday morning at the hotel. We had a good time on Friday night. I did not remember that I could dance. There were other people in our age group at the poolside party at the hotel. When my wife saw me dancing with the other women, she decided to let her hair down. By the time we got back to our room, it was very late. I was determined to make love to her on that night, but she said she was tired, so she went to sleep.

I went back to the party and danced up a storm with one of the women. She asked me what happened to my partner and I told her she was sleeping. We were dancing and we had a few drinks. Suddenly, my wife showed up and pulled me away from the woman and told me she was ready for me. I was very embarrassed. People were looking at me. I followed her back to her room and we made passionate love that night.

The following day we had a late breakfast and I saw the young lady. I apologised to her for the behaviour of my wife. She was at the hotel alone. We exchanged numbers and we have been in touch. This woman likes me and she has been calling me every day. I like her, and my wife is aware of it. It is hard to ignore this girl who is showing great interest in me. I have been warning my wife that I have feelings and if I have to be begging her to meet my needs, our relationship would not make sense.

I would like to know if we can meet with you, so please let us know if you will be willing to meet with us early.

H.A.

Dear H.A.,

I will be glad to meet with you and your wife. I am sure your wife has faults, but it would not take a woman long to realise if her husband is showing interest in another woman.

But as I said, I will meet with both of you. Come with an open heart. Don't try to hide anything about yourself or your wife. We hope that we can get your relationship back on track. I suggest, therefore, that you call my office at 876-929-1667 and ask my secretary to give you a date for counselling, and we will go from there.

Pastor