Going crazy over this cute doctor

Dear Pastor,

I am a 28-year-old nurse assistant. I am having a problem. I am working at a hospital.

I do enjoy my work and I particularly like to be here when a certain doctor is on duty. This man is very handsome. I find myself loving him. He is not Jamaican. He is very caring and friendly. I do everything possible to get his attention. One day I said something to let him know that I like him and he said, "Nurse So-and-so, I am married." I did not comment. Why it is that all the good men are taken? This doctor is much older than I am. I cannot see why this man would reject me.

I used to have a boyfriend, but I did not truly love him; also he wanted to have sex with me more than three times for the week. Further, he was very mean to me in every way. I had to ask him for money to do my hair and nails. October was my birthday and he did not even buy me a gift. He would borrow my car and when he returned it, the tank would be on 'E'. A man like him is no man at all. But, he was very good in bed.

This doctor told me that he and another doctor will be opening an office very soon and he would love to have me work with them. I would still be able to work at the hospital. I would take that job just to be close to him. I am getting old and I need a man in my life. What can I do to get this man?

Unnamed

Dear Writer,

You are a bad girl. You are easy to lie down. This doctor should suspect that you want to have him as your lover, but you know you will destroy him.

There is nothing good in you. You should continue the relationship you are having with the mean man. When you need something and you know he has the money, ask him for the money to purchase what you want. When he borrows your car, he should not return it to you with an empty tank. You should point that out to him. Please, leave the doctor alone. Try to be a good woman.

I would like to suggest that you go back to school and get some more training, so that you would be in a position to earn more money. You should at least try to become a registered nurse.

Pastor