Girlfriend is a big freak

Dear Pastor,

I am 19 years old and I have a girlfriend. I went to spend time with her one Saturday and we were smoking pot, or marijuana.

We were also drinking, and she became very high and was talking foolishness. She started to strip me and before I realised what was going on, both of us were naked. I was surprised when I discovered that this girl had pierced her vagina. I never knew that girls would pierce their vaginas. We made love and after that, we fell asleep.

Do you think that she is a good girl for me to have? I have not asked her why she pierced her vagina. Should I ask her about it?

D.M.

Dear D.M.,

First of all, let me give you a bit of warning. You said your girlfriend and you were smoking pot. I must ask you to desist from doing so.

If you don't, you may find yourself using harder drugs, and that will eventually affect you physically. You should also try to tell your girlfriend to cease from using drugs because the use of marijuana will also affect her. That is all I have to say.

Pastor