Girlfriend shocked me the first time we had sex

Dear Pastor,

I am a 23-year-old man, but I was 20 years old when I had sex for the first time.

I remember clearly where I had sex with my girlfriend and how she convinced me to have sex with her. I did not know men were called virgins if they had never had sex before. So when my girlfriend groaned while we were having sex, I felt something had gone wrong with her. She had to explain to me what I should do to make her reach orgasm.

After we had sex a few times after that, I could hardly control her in bed. We had sex for the first time in my uncle's station wagon. So every time I see a station wagon of that kind, I remember our first occasion, and I remember my girlfriend. No one should judge or curse another person who does not have much sexual experience. I am glad that a person like you have been able to help young people in their sexual journey. Keep up the good work.

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Dear Writer,

I know that you want to say more in this letter, so I would say to you now: sit and continue writing this letter, and I will answer you, because you clearly have more to say.

Pastor