Partner loves to play with my hair ‘down there’

Dear Pastor,

I am a young woman, and I am so embarrassed to take off my clothes when the lights are on and my boyfriend and I are together.

I have pubic hair that is thick and they grow up to my navel. My boyfriend is always playing with them; recently, he took his comb and combed them. I thought it was so funny, because I have never thought about doing that. He said I should not allow anyone else to do that but him.

I do not have any children. My boyfriend has used oil to put on my pubic hair. I would like to get my hair removed. I prefer to have clean skin than to have so much hair on my body, especially at my private parts. Do you have any suggestions to make? Please give me your advice.

S.T.

Dear S.T.,

It is said that women who have lots of hair on their body have a high sex drive and are easy to be aroused.

I do not know whether that is true. You may talk to your doctor about that. Your man seems to enjoy playing with your hair. Make sure the oil that he is using does not get into your vagina, because that can cause an infection

One of the best ways to remove disgusting hair from your body is by waxing; not even shaving. Some folks pluck their hair, so you should consider discussing this with a skin specialist. You have to always be willing to please yourself as to how you treat your body, and not the man in your life.

Pastor