Pregnancy has slowed my wife’s sex drive

Dear Pastor,

When my wife was pregnant she was still enjoying sex, even when she was close to her due date.

I was concerned that something may go wrong, so I refused to make love to her. I hate to say to you that she forced me to have sex with her. She used to fuss with me when I was reluctant to have sex with her. I only consented after I spoke to her doctor and he assured me that nothing was wrong, and I would not be hurting the baby. My wife enjoyed having multiple orgasms and I thought that would have changed, but it didn't.

Now that she has had the baby, she is not as aggressive as before. But the doctor told me that she may soon return to her aggressive ways and when she does, I should be prepared to make her very happy. According to the doctor, I should be glad for the little break that I am enjoying. Nothing is physically wrong with my wife. I remember how my wife used to say that I was greedy. Now I have to call her greedy because she does not give me a break.

Z.K.

Dear Z.K.,

The doctor assured you that nothing is wrong if a pregnant woman asks for sex, even when she is in an advanced stage of pregnancy.

One thing that men need to understand is that penetration is not the only thing that a man can do with his pregnant wife. During her pregnancy, even if they engage in penetration, it will not hurt the baby. A couple should learn how they can position themselves and enjoy each other while having sexual intercourse. You can learn these things by purchasing books and reading them together.

Pastor